Good question. I think once the “OSM fixed” column turns green, it must then be added to the CS update queue. I guess periodic checks of the Cities - CityStrides page could be part of your routine. I’m always checking for updates on my main city. 
I’m in Butler Township (Montgomery County, with a Dayton city mailing address) and am running into the same issue. My HUGE problem is that I have NO IDEA how to even begin to do all of this tech stuff. The link below is directly from the Township website. Unfortunately my streets don’t pop up at all (but they are on Life Map!) because it’s not Dayton proper.
It sounds like you might also be outside of Vandalia, Ohio - CityStrides … perhaps a bit South, towards Little York Road.
I notice that e.g. Way: Northerton Circle (148042445) | OpenStreetMap does exist outside of any mapped city/township, only existing in Montgomery County.
Butler Township isn’t mapped at all in OSM. There are three others, but they’re not close to Dayton. I see you’ve already added it to the missing city list (or someone else has), which is about as far as I’m able to go as well.
i added it yes! so to be clear; i won’t be getting “credit” for these roads? i’ll find somewhere else to go lol!!